Thursday, January 22, 2009

Filipino Style of Courtship, Filipino Style of Marriage and Family

Group 6


ABSTRACT OF THE LESSON

Sa mga Filipino ang pangliligaw ay ang pag kuha ng atensyon ng mga kababaihan at pati narin sa magulang. May mga dahilan kung pano nagsisimula ang panliligaw katulad ng Physical attraction, Sexual attraction and love. Nung unang panahon tuksuhan, harana, pag akyat ng ligaw, paninilbihan at pamamanhikan ang paraan ng panliligaw. Ang ilan sa mga ito ay nawala na o hindi na uso sa panahon natin ngayon, tulad ng pang haharana. In modern courtship ang pangliligaw ay parang napaka dali na di tulad ng dati, minsan nawawala na din yung formality, sa text pwede na manligaw trough cellphone, yung iba sa school, sa kalye at kung saan-saan nalang nagliligawan, kapag dumalaw naman sa bahay ng babae yung manliligaw hindi na expected ng pamilya ng babae yung paninilbihan, pag sibak ng kahoy, pag-igib ng tubig at iba pa, bonds with a woman’s family is enough na.
Sabi nga nila sa haba-haba ng prosisyon sa simbahan din ang tuloy. Ang pag-aasawa ay di basta-basta, this is sacrament of the hearts, a covenant with the state and holy agreement with God. Kailangan piliin mabuti ang papakasalan dahil walang expiration date ang marriage contract. Maraming napapasubo sa pag-aasawa tulad nalang pag napikot ka, pag nakabuntis at nabuntis ka, at yung iba dahil sa tagal ng relasyon for being mag boyfriend and girlfriend, if more than a years na kailangan ay maging official na mag-asawa na sila dahil baka magkasawaan pa. Kung paano ang pag-aasawa syempre kailangan mamanhikan ang lalaki sa magulang ng babae, pag-papaalam, despedida de soltera at kumpisal. Pwede magapakasal sa simbahan, sa mayor o sa huwes na tinatawag. Sa ngayon ganito parin naman ang ginagawa ng karamihan, pero ang iba live in na lang, hindi na nagpapakasal.
Sa pag-aasawa magkakaroon ulit ng panibagong pamilya, family can be defined as set of people related by blood, marriage, or adoption. May ibat-ibang klase ng pamilya merong mag asawa and their children na nakaseparate from other relatives, may mag-asawa naman na walang anak, meron din pamilya na nakasama sa parents or sa other relatives nila. May tinatawag naman na authority between mother and father, like father has a greatest power, he can control all member in a family and make a decision. Sa mother naman sya yung mag aaproved ng decision and sya din sa budgeting. Pwede din both or equal yung mother and father in terms of power and authority in the family tulad ng pag papalaki at pagdididsiplina sa anak. One of the functions having a family is to provide care to each other, protection and best loved qualities.

THREE THINGS I LEARNED FROM THE LESSON

ü Sa panliligaw kailangan adopt parin natin yung dating kinaugalian, sa babae dapat medyo pakipot parin, andun parin yung pagka dalagang Pilipina at hindi dapat sa kalye o kung saan nagpapaligaw.

ü I learned the Filipino Style of marriage, the Philippine weddings and also the Legal Concept of marriage.

ü I learned and I get idea about the double standard.

IMPLICATIONS OF THE NEW THINGS I LEARNED TO ME AS A PERSON


In our style of courtship now we see all the changes from classic to modern. Kung dati pag nanliligaw sa bahay hindi pwede mag-usap o mag tabi man lang, they can exchange their thoughts trough their eyes, but now yung mga nagliligawan can exchange their feelings easily trough cell phone.
There are so many kinds and ways in celebrating in the concept of marriage but it is doesn’t matter because the important is the contract that you sign for a permanent union between a couple into in accordance with the law for the establishment of matrimonial life.
The double standard is different rules between man and a woman. Halimbawa sa mag asawa, pag nagtaksil si lalaki hindi masyado mabigat ang parusa nito dahil para sa iba natural lang, pero pag sa babae mabigat at malaking kasalanan na ito. Sa family we should know our responsibility. We should know how to response to what kind of duties and obligation that we have through the most of our ability.

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Prostitution and AIDS

Group 4

ABSTRACT OF THE LESSON

Sa bansa natin marami ang walang trabaho, siguro dahil na rin sa kahirapan, dahil hindi nakapag tapos at kung ano-ano pang dahilan. Sa panahon natin kailangan maging practical upang maka survive sa buhay, ang iba kahit anong trabaho ayos lang basta kumita pang tustos sa pamilya. May iba sa atin na kahit sa patalim kumakapit in others words illegal or hindi marangal na trabaho. Tulad na lang ng Prostitution, sexual services kapalit ang pera na kung saan pati sarili binibenta. Marami ang mga kabataan o mga minor de edad pa lang ay nasasangkot na sa ganitong gawain. Nagiging sanhi din ito ng problema ng ating bansa, dahil sa prostitution nagiging dahilan ng pagka sira ng isang pamilya, pag dami ng populasyon, pag kasira na rin ng isang kinabukasan at pag kakaroon ng sakit. Tulad ng AIDS (Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome) ito ay nakamamatay na sakit na bunga o dulot ng birus na tinatawag na human immunodeficiency virus. Kabilang ang AIDS sa mga sakit na nakukuha sa pakikipagtalik, nakakaapekto ito sa kalusugan ng tao at napaka delikado dahil wala pang gamot o lunas sa sakit na ito, marahil ang lunas ay ang pag-iwas.

THREE THINGS I LEARNED FROM THE LESSON

Nag karon ako ng kaalaman tungkol sa sakit na AIDS, kung ano ang sanhi nito at kung anu ang pinag mulan, sabi ay sa green monkey nag buhat. Pano ng yari yon? Di kaya may kumain ng unggoy na yon, sa mga nakagat o may nakipag talik sa unggoy kaya nahawahan at naikalat ang sakit na HIV, I don’t know, right thing to do is we should be aware and educate our self about this matter.
Nalaman ko din na ang AIDS pala ay di nakukuha sa paghahalikan, pagbebeso-beso, laway, yakapan, pag-ubo, pawis, luha, hatsing o pagbahing, pakikipagkamayan, paghihiraman ng mga damit, pakikisalo sa pagkain, paghiram ng mga kubyertos, kagat ng lamok, pagtabi sa pagtulog, at paggamit ng banyo. Sa pakikipag talik lang pala ito naisasalin sa ibang tao. Hindi naman sinasabing iwasan ang pakikipag talik dahil natural lang ito lalu na sa mga mag asawa, kailangan lang ng wastong pag-iingat para sa sariling kapakanan ng bawat isa para lumiit na o mawala ng tuluyan ang sakit na AIDS.
Natutunan ko rin ang mga klase o iba’t ibang tawag sa Prostitution, tulad ng Heterosexua, homosexual, lesbian prostitution, brothels and etc,. Pinaka common ay heterosexual – men as buyers and women as sellers. Masyadong malaswa na gawain sa paningin ng iba pero in other side ayos lang ito sa iba dahil nakaka attract ng mga tutrista na nandito, matatawag na sex industry for tourists ang ating bansa dahil madami ang prostitution nag lipana sa bawat sulok ng ating bansa, mga destinasyon tulad ng Metro Manila, Angeles City, Batangas, Cebu, davao at dito rin sa Bulacan marami nyan.

IMPLICATIONS OF THE NEW THINGS I LEARNED TO ME AS A PERSON


Sa mga natutunan ko about sa Prostitution at AIDS ay magiging gabay ko ito upang makaiwas at ma educate ko rin ang ibang tao, mabibigyan ko sila ng ilang inpormasyon tungkol dito. Masarap pag aralan at matutunan ang mga ganitong topic dahil marami sa atin na di napagtutuunan ng pansin at na eeducate ang sarili. I will adapt all that I learned from this about Prostitution and AIDS; it helps me to provide my self keeps away to those things. Like in Prostitution, I surely say that I will never involve, never in my life because as of now I see the consequences if I were engaged to that kind of activity.

"Let’s fight against Prostitution that cause of AIDS,
Not like fighting to someone, I mean is IWASAN..."

Friday, December 5, 2008

Group 3

ABSTRACT OF THE LESSON

We have heard of the many problems of the world. Even our country beset with problems, poverty is the main cause. Our current leaders have their hands full trying to run this country for us but there is no changes, we are still in the stage of poverty, some cause are unfair terms of trade, weak rule of law, over population, war, crime, discrimination of various kinds, poor access to affordable health care and illiteracy in a sense that some people cannot acquire decent jobs.
Because of those problems that we encounter now there’s so may people here in our country migrated in other rich country to have a good job with good salary and saved enough money, we don’t blame those people because all of us want a better life. May be when the time comes, we shall have the solutions to these problems. Just what our national hero said, “Kabataan ang pag-asa na bayan”.


THREE THINGS I LEARNED FROM THE LESSON

ü I learned that by means of poverty all people work diligently, but some people does something wrong like kidnapping, to steal that bringing you in peril.

ü I learned that doing bad things like crimes, steal and other are good in some way and bad in someway. People do such thing because of poverty but it’s convenient to their self only they don’t even notice the damage they done to their victims.

ü I learned that people in the society show inequality and discrepancy that contain more influence why the quality of a person is change for being beastly.

IMPLICATIONS OF THE NEW THINGS I LEARNED TO ME AS A PERSON

I will do my all to uplift my self, I will courage my self to do something good that will benefit to everyone to keep away from poverty, I don’t like to reach the point of disapprove behavior by doing bad things.


“We are the future hope of our country, do something good that will benefit to everyone”

Group 1

ABSTRACT OF THE LESSON

Sociology means socio and associate, study of society. In a community, as in any other pocket of society, socialization or associate to other people is a vital. This is why it is important for one to be a good individual and good conversationalist that can interact in different people and at different places. Example if you are decided to go abroad, you can’t exist to that kind of environment if you do not know how to associate and act together with people around you.

THREE THINGS I LEARNED FROM THE LESSON

ü I learned that in sociology I must be a good conversationalist to contribute much too to build understanding and to finding solutions for community problems, it simply means that if you say sociology the strongest social urge is to connect, to share, to become one with people. It illustrate if we know how to associate if where problems are given solutions, if where misunderstandings are straightened out, may be where bright ideas are born.
ü I learned sociology is important because it helps one in winning friends and having success in any field of endeavor.
ü Also I learned that our self are mold by the society and also by our own. You are ignorant in the eyes of some people if you are alone and don’t even exist in the society. According to Herbert Spencer society is growing organism “Survival of the Fittest” as we say “Matira matibay”.

IMPLICATIONS OF THE NEW THINGS I LEARNED TO ME AS A PERSON

All that I learned I know that all of these helps to build my character also society grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference to maintain one another with disruption of one part effecting readjustment of the others. In school it is part of the society that builds me as individual, I’m here because I want to learn and of course I have to cope not only with the new challenges but also in the many physical, emotional spiritual and even social changes.

“Our own existence is bound with the existence of the people around us”